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“How Are You Doing This?” The Question That Started It All

People kept asking how my son could read and spell so young. The answer was simpler than they expected, and now you can try it with your own child for free.

Every time I shared a little of what my son was doing, the same question rolled in. People wanted to know how he could read and spell so well so young, and how on earth I was teaching him to do it.

To me, honestly, it felt basic. It was just the natural way I’d been going about it. But the more people asked, the more I realized that what felt obvious to me wasn’t obvious to everyone, and a lot of parents genuinely didn’t know where to begin. So I decided to build something that could hand my method to them in a way that actually made sense.

The Simple Shift That Made It Click

Here’s what I was doing, and it really is simpler than it sounds.

My son is five, and he reads and spells well. While we were working through a spelling program, it struck me that as he was learning his phonic sounds, I could teach him to spell at the very same time. The sounds he was learning to read were the same sounds he needed to write a word, so I brought the two together instead of treating them as separate lessons. It worked beautifully. He wasn’t memorizing spelling lists so much as learning to hear a word and know the sounds that build it.

That’s the whole heart of Spelling by Sound. Rather than rote memorization, a child learns to listen to a word, catch each sound inside it, and put those sounds down on paper.

A child sounding out and writing the word dog beside matching wooden letter tiles.

Built to Be Open and Go

When I set out to turn this into a curriculum, I knew exactly what parents needed, because I am one.

Open and go is everything. Most parents don’t have time to prep a lesson or figure out what to say, and that’s especially true if you’re not homeschooling but you’ve noticed a gap in your child’s learning and simply want to help them practice. So this is built to remove all of that guesswork. There’s a teacher and parent guide that tells you exactly what to say, word for word, alongside a workbook that walks your child right through it. You open it, and you go. No planning, no wondering if you’re doing it right.

Start Where Your Child Actually Is

The full curriculum is still on its way, but the most important first piece is ready right now, and it’s free.

Before you can teach a child to spell by sound, you need to know where they’re starting. Do they know their letter sounds? Can they hear the individual sounds inside a word? The free challenge helps you find out. It shows you exactly where your child is, and if they’re not there yet, it shows you how to begin teaching them, because that’s the true starting point for everything that follows.

Think of it as the diagnostic step that tells you what your child needs before you spend money on anything at all.

Journaling / Reflection Prompts

Does your child know their letter sounds, and can they hear those sounds inside a word?

Where have you noticed a gap in your child’s reading or spelling that you’d love to help close?

What would it feel like to have a lesson you could simply open and teach, with no prep?

Try the Free Spelling Challenge

Start with the free challenge. It’s the perfect first step, whether you go on to the full curriculum or not.

Can Your Child Hear Every Sound? free spelling challenge cover

Can Your Child Hear Every Sound?

A free five-day challenge that shows you exactly where your child is starting from.

Spelling by Sound Short Vowels workbook and parent guide

Spelling by Sound: Short Vowels

The open-and-go skill builder: a word-for-word parent guide and a workbook that walks your child through it.

See the curriculum

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